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24 October, 2009

head shot

For years those more cynical have chastised the Ramseys for images of JonBenet found online or in the media. The big flaw being the Ramsey's did not distribute the images of JonBenet at family attended pageants for the world to gawk at, criticize at or drool over - depending on individual preference. Someone other than the Ramsey's initiated the distribution of JonBenet's images that went viral and has stayed that way.

Internet safety advocates have been talking and warning of the dangers of posting children's images online for years. Yet I can't count the number of blogs where holier than thou parents take out the Ramsey's for something they never did with JonBenet's pictures and in the click of the mouse the mommie or daddy critique blogger uploads images of their own children for who-knows-who to appreciate, or worse, in unexpected ways--

Published in the New York Times
by Peter DaSilva


"FOR Jessica Gwozdz, a professional photographer and mother of two, Flickr was a blessing. It allowed her to share photos of her children, Grace and Henry, with distant, tech-averse relatives for whom a username and password would have been too great an obstacle. It even allowed potential clients to freely browse her gallery.

Then a friend sent her an e-mail message with the kind of subject line no parent cares to read: “Oh no — it’s Gracie.”[...read more]

How safe do you think it is to post family style pictures and videos of your children on your blog or on sites like Facebook, Flicker, Myspace or YouTube?

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01 October, 2009

dumb it down


In the pre-release of his latest documentary when Michael Moore speaks of capitalism and the demise of quality news journalism, he ties it to education and literacy while readers often look to over-saturation and consumption of stories like the murder of JonBenet Ramsey--





hiviper says ...
"I would agree that the O.J. trial and Jon Benet case contributed to the dumbing down of the news. I remember when Murdock first infiltrated this country with "A Current Affair"..."


arturobandini2 says ...
"The real downfall of American news journalism started before JonBenet and O.J. Anyone interested in this subject should read "S.C.U.D. Stud" Arthur Kent's damning expose about his short tenure at NBC during and right after the Gulf War...A conscious decision was made by the Big 3 to shut down their foreign bureaus and show less international news and more homegrown trainwrecks like Amy Fisher and Joey Buttafucko. It's only gotten stupider since...."
[...read more]

Michael Moore on Death of Old Media
Posted in Hollywood Elsewhere
by Jeffrey Wells

"...New York Film Festival screening of Capitalism: A Love Story at Alice Tully Hall --
"A nation of semi-literates and ignoramuses!"[...read more]



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12 September, 2009

most unpleasant

In a series of articles by Amy Lee from Chicagoland this morning, commemorating the brutal killing of little Jaclyn Dowaliby, the similarities to the abduction, murder and botched investigation of JonBenet Ramsey's murder is clearly memorialized.


Just like JonBenet's case, from the moment Jaclyn was discovered missing from her bed, the investigation was mismanaged by law enforcement and persecution of the parents ensued. Mrs. Dowaliby was arrested and found not guilty but after being convicted, jailed then released after 18 months, Jaclyn's father David cannot be tried again under the double jeopardy rule.


The Ramsey's have been cleared of guilt due to even more crime scene DNA discoveries in 2008. I often wonder if it would have been some kind strategic advantage for initiating a real investigation if either of the Ramseys were to have been arrested shortly after JonBenet's murder early in 1997. Later that same year, once the discovery was made that law enforcement was withholding critical DNA evidence, when combined with lack of other evidence either Ramsey would have been swiftly acquitted. Had that happened the business of actually looking for JonBenet's killer could have begun years ago and the case could have been investigated properly. Just as is now being done today in the heinous and unsolved murder of three year old Riley Fox, also kidnapped from her bed in the middle of the night while her family slept nearby.

What we can learn from these cases is invaluable if we are willing to pay attention. Ask any of these parents that have suffered the imaginable. While they pursue and yearn for an answer to the question of who murdered their child and why, their concern for derailing similar persecution of innocent victims, and how this impedes a real investigation to find the killer, will be bubbling right under the surface --

Unsettling ending
Published in the Southtown Star
BY AMY LEE

"...Jaclyn's horrific abduction and murder occurred eight years before child beauty queen JonBenet Ramsey, 6, was found dead under eerily similar circumstances in her Boulder, Colo., home.

In both the cases, a broken basement window became pivotal to the police investigation. In both cases, investigators did not immediately secure the homes to glean evidence and prevent contamination. In both cases, a media frenzy ensued when police fingered the parents and the parents shied from the press and hired lawyers.

"At the time this was a very rare occurrence. No one raced in and accused the parents. The police work was consistent with the times...This was the end of an era when people left keys in their cars, their doors unlocked and windows open at night to sleep."

More in the series by Amy Lee:

Justice for Jaclyn?


Did mentally ill uncle do it?


DNA not likely to solve case


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15 August, 2009

seeing the killer

After JonBenet Ramsey was murdered in 1996 authorities, media, psychics and the general public have been all over the board with criminal profiles in sometimes pointed speculation that JonBenet's killer was a woman, and or a Ramsey. This occurred despite less that 3 weeks after the murder it was established there was male DNA left on JonBenet's undergarment and that this male DNA did not belong to any of the Ramseys. Twelve years later, leaps in proven technologies, it is broadly recognized this same unidentified male left DNA from 3 of his bodily sources in 4 different locations on JonBenet's person.

There are signs that someday emerging technologies like forensic molecular photo fitting will produce an image of this evil person. On the path of research and development toward photo fitting and much closer to real life application is the capability of extracting basic personal characteristics and associating the killer's relatives from DNA. These general characteristic techniques can pinpoint race; height; hair or eye color are now being put through the expected legal, ethical and privacy paces so that once released for appropriate use this information will be of tremendous benefit in creating a verifiable criminal profile in many cases, including JonBenet's. In the meantime that new task force over at Boulder PD submits weekly the killers DNA profile to CODIS on the chance they may get a match to one of the 7m+ criminals whose DNA profile is contained in CODIS.

Offender profiling, outside what characteristics found in crime scene DNA will eventually tell us, can be a risky business most especially for a layperson. It is not replicable, validated and tested meaning it does not qualify as science in standard. Sort of like handwriting analysis or forensic linguistics. Because these practices are qualitative opinion based methods admissibility of results and expert opinions can be challenged, frequently limited, in state and federal courts. Criminal profiling can be useful investigative tool where it is understood by users that it's application is subject to unestablished fault and error rates, again like document examination and linguistic stylistics.

Offender profiling by subject matter experts like John Douglas is can be of high investigative value based on education and experience, often a source of clues in a specific crime scene as derived from historical crime conditions and behaviors of known criminals. With that in mind, and somewhat more realistic than attempting to tie guilt to someone wearing the same clothes two days in a row, because there was a sexual element to this crime we may have more hints to ponder about JonBenet's killer than in 1997--

He is most likely of Caucasian descent

He is now probably at least in his mid-forties

He may be shorter than the average in height

He could be left-handed

In the past, prior to the crime, he might have had a head injury

May prefer alcohol over street drugs

His choice of victim may have been totally random

Is likely to feel he suffered more than the victim; lack of empathy for the victims

Ramseys update own probe
1997, Denver Post
By Marilyn Robinson

"Frustrated at the pace of the police investigation, JonBenet Ramsey's father stepped up his efforts Wednesday to find her killer...

• JonBenét's killer may have been suffering from some stress in the weeks and months preceding the crime;
• A triggering event, such as a job crisis or crisis in a personal relationship may have caused this individual to vent anger, perhaps at a female close to him, or perhaps at me personally;
• Since the murder, this individual may rabidly read news reports of the investigation, listen to talk radio shows oriented to coverage of the murder;
• He possibly has increased his consumption of alcohol or drugs;
• He may have even turned to religion;
• He may be rigid, nervous and preoccupied in casual conversation;
• He may have tried to appear very cooperative with the authorities if he was contacted during the course of the police investigation;
• He may have quickly constructed an alibi for his whereabouts the night JonBenét was killed and may have repeated it several times to key individuals around him as if rehearsing them in the answer;
• The killer is someone who may have previously been in my home..."

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13 August, 2009

scream child abuse

There is, to date, no known association between JonBenet Ramsey's brutal murder and the child beauty pageants she participated in. Never the less, once footage from pageant videos was altered and unleashed en masse daily on cable news in 1997, JonBenet's role was established as the poster child for all things bad that happen to children that participate in pageants. All underpinned by allegations made toward her parents as abusers that supported it. Wild speculation yes, absolutely. There is not a shred of evidence or even a lukewarm lead pointing to JonBenet attracting a molesting murdering stalker at a beauty pageant. Ditto findings her parents nor pageants were abusive.

There are plenty of studies about high accident risk activities for children such as horseback riding, gymnastics and any of the team sports. In the same spirit, there are numerous studies about where pedophiles seek their prey with national laws enacted that are intended to help reduce risk to children. Yet not one of these reports mention child beauty pageants as being a a high risk, pedophile attracting activity for kids like oh, the Internet has proven to be.

That is not to say that perverts don't think of a 6 year old as a sex object, leering at purloined pictures of JonBenet online.

Frankly, I am not at all sure how much pageants damage a child more than any other highly demanding activity, but the public is sometimes freaked out, offended or outraged. Pageantry to me personally seems a boring, somewhat shallow and a rather distasteful avocation, but I can't sum up my personal opinion to an allegation of child abuse. It is rather ironic, too, how some folks condemn exploitation of children in the very same breath they exploit JonBenet's name in the process.

I've spent a good amount of time trying to find a reputable report on exactly how beauty pageants are so much more harmful to children than other mainstream activities. I haven't found one. If you can please let me know, if you would be so kind. While I see no quantified formal studies, there are stories now and then of the much speculated horrible things that can happen to children in pageants.

This story, published today is interesting as it is generational; the young child. a college student and a mom...all child beauty pageant participants--

Former Child Beauty Queen Speaks Out
Published by ABC News
by ANDREA CANNING and JESSICA HOFFMAN

"Nearly 15 years ago Brooke Breedwell was a 5-year-old beauty queen and the star of the documentary "Painted Babies." Now the 19-year-old is speaking out about how the need to win took a toll on her childhood and her relationship with her mother...

Breedwell, now a sophomore at the University of Tennessee, said her mother was very involved in her pageant career. While pageants gave Breedwell confidence and poise, she says her mother pushed her too hard.

Mickie Wood, a former beauty queen herself, admits she too lives vicariously through her 4- year-old daughter, Eden, who has been competing since she was a year old.

"If that was all we did and we were constantly in the mirror primping, if she was overzealous about her appearance, but I don't see that and if I ever did see that I would put a stop to it," she said. "I want her to be well rounded and balanced. It's just not all about beauty."

But Brooke Breedwell did feel like she was missing out. She quit pageants when she was 7 because of the pressure..."

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03 August, 2009

twiorities

Followed by the usual rants and wagging fingers that erroneously jump to associate JonBenet Ramsey's murder with beauty pageants, over at his Twitter account aplusk , Ashton Kutcher tweaks out a little over a blog post illustrating some pretty extreme kiddie pageant pictures. Can't say as I blame him or anyone else for thinking this pageant stuff is on the fringe.

The unproven association between JonBenet's murder and pageants has been speculated for the same 12 years the case has been unsolved. And during this time and beforehand it is hard to find a single award winning pre-teen pageant participant that has been stalked, tortured, molested and killed by some demented and perverted stranger as JonBenet was. (As a heads up, there is a story about to break on a major media outlet about children being sold on the internet. Once it's out and if images of the children are published one won't find any made-up costumed pageant types - you may find images of your own child.)

In the meantime since JonBenet's murder, hundreds of thousands of children have been beaten, molested, starved, medically neglected, sold into slavery or murdered. There are little ones have committed suicide in reaction to bullying and harassment. I wonder if the little girls spotlighted in the UnCoached blog feel a little embarrassed or even perhaps harassed by the attention and subsequent negative readers comments?

Then there are accidental deaths from adults allowing children to do this, this and this.

It's easy to get all righteous and worked up about the oddities of child pageants, maybe much easier than thinking about or understanding the need for resources for real and documented dangers children face everyday.

The Power of Ashton Kutcher’s Twitter Account
Published at UnCoached
by Natty

"...Then all of a sudden I see
this account pop up. Sure enough it’s Ashton Kutcher tweeting my little pre-teen gallery that reads “has anyone seen this? it kinda freaks me out.”

So to Mr. Kutcher. Thanks for the little boost buddy!..."

From the comment gallery

# Kellyon 02 Aug 2009 at 2:28 pm
How quickly they forget Jon-Benet Ramsey… this isn't dress up--this is prostitution...


Rebeccaon 02 Aug 2009 at 3:36 pm
So loving of these mothers to take away a childhood. Does no one remember JonBenet Ramsey. SHE never had a childhood either.


# Jession 02 Aug 2009 at 1:09 pm
They look like midget women preparing for a circus freak show!


# Chocoon 02 Aug 2009 at 3:12 pm
They’ll grow up to be perfect f k machines and dumb wives. Oh, the american man’s dream!


And just for the record, here is a real danger, one of the many legitimate dangers children face every day--

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29 July, 2009

scarier than fiction


The Cases That Haunt Us includes the story of the unsolved murder of JonBenet Ramsey. Written by Mindhunter John Douglas and Mark Olkshaker, an independant reviewer ranks this book as number 43 of 50 best true crime books of all time--





The 50 best true crime books: truth stranger -- and scarier -- than fiction, Part 2
by Michelle Kerns

"Ready for more unabated true terror? If you missed the first 25 books on the list of 50 best true crime books of all time, catch up on all of the horrific cruelty, nutjob serial killers, and heroic detectives here.

Check the bathroom window is locked; now, on with the list.

43. The Cases That Haunt Us: From Jack the Ripper to JonBenet Ramsey, the FBI's Legendary Mindhunter Sheds Light on the Mysteries That Won't Go Away - John Douglas and Mark Olkshaker

Written by the same duo that wrote Mindhunter, this one delves into the details of unsolved cases such as Jack the Ripper, the Zodiac crimes, and th Black Dahlia murder..."

Michelle Kerns writes for a disturbingly eccentric collection of print and online publications. She watches the movie Hot Fuzz every Thursday night, passionately adores the literary character Melrose Plant, and believes strongly in the four food groups: red wine, white wine, Guinness, gin. She knows where her towel is. Contact her with rants, raves, recommendations, or review copies here.

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28 July, 2009

number 8*2

Not surprisingly, the murder of JonBenet Ramsey did not place in the top news stories of the century according to the Newseum survey of the general public and journalists. Last year JonBenet's story was featured as number 8 in Time's most famous unsolved crimes of all time. Entertainment Weekly Hotsheet author Jim Mullen's has his own very special calculations that includes the importance of JonBenet's story to cable new$ this past century--

1) Michael Jackson Dies!

2) Anna Nicole Smith Dies!

3) Who Fathered Anna Nicole Smith’s Baby?

4) Laci Peterson Disappearance

5) Natalee Holloway Disappearance

6) The O.J. Simpson Trial

7) The Terri Schiavo Death Watch

8) JonBenet Ramsey Murder

9) Janet Jackson “Wardrobe Malfunction”

10) 9/11

11) Anything Twitter

12) Princess Diana Dies!

13) Elian Gonzalez Saga

14) Tawana Brawley Saga

15) The Millennium Bug

16) John Wayne Bobbitt and Lorena Bobbitt Incident

17) The Joey Buttafuoco/Amy Fisher Affair

18) The Tonya Harding/Nancy Kerrigan Incident

19) The Last “Seinfeld” Episode

20) Princess Di Weds...

Jim Mullen is the author of “It Takes a Village Idiot: Complicating the Simple Life” and “Baby’s First Tattoo.” You can reach him at jim_mullen@myway.com

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